In Defense of Marriage

Three years and one day ago, I got married. And then shortly after that, I wrote a post about getting married , which has become one of the most popular things...

They Got Married?!

If you’ve been on the Internet at all in the past, oh, ten years, you’ll have seen the ad for Classmates.com that features an improbable matrimonial matchup of...

We Got Married.

I’ve written about a lot of things on my blog that I felt were important to me over the years, so it’s something of an uncanny feeling to know that I’m writing...

separate and unequal

Gina lists the 1,049 federal rights that depend on marital status . Civil unions are not enough, and will never be enough, despite the fact that they’re harder...

RCB on polygyny

RCB has written an illuminating essay on polygyny , it’s a terrific read. She had given me a briefer version of these thoughts this weekend, but seeing the...

I found Indiebride the other

I found Indiebride the other day, and it appealed to me with the simple statement of its self-stated niche: [A] place for would-be brides who have more on their...

Hmm... I got a search

Hmm… I got a search report for what people searched for on my site last month. I tend to check those out when they come in because they’re infrequent and a lot...